A prudent phone sex mistress understands that, ultimately, the satisfaction of her clients is the most important part of domination phone sex. Both the top and the bottom can be enjoyable positions during a scene, each catering to different facets of the participant’s personality. It can be satisfying to practice top-bottom switch, where all involved parties take turns fulfilling the dominant and the submissive role. This is not the same as topping from the bottom, which is the annoying practice of making demands and/or trying to control the scene as a submissive. Because BDSM is about sacrificing control, topping from the bottom betrays the purpose and completely sucks the enjoyment away from the top. The best way to handle such situations is to be honest, forthcoming, and open BEFORE the session to eliminate any confusion or ambiguity. Top bottom switch scenarios will be far more enjoyable if you pursue them prudently.
Top/Bottom Switch, Sharing the Phone Sex Wealth
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